

We have believed the lie that life has to “feel good” to BE good. We
do not like “pain” and we will avoid it at all costs! I believe there are two
kinds of pain. There is a “destructive” kind and a “restorative” kind. Satan is
the author of the “destructive” kind. He gets us to believe lies about
ourselves and about God that causes us to make life choices which bring
destructive consequences. Such as, relationships that are hurtful and harmful,
sex before marriage resulting in diseases and unwanted pregnancies, addictions
of all kinds which puts us in unimaginable bondage! But the pain that God
brings upon us is “restorative”, not unlike setting a broken bone so we can
walk straighter, cleaning out an infected wound, filling a cavity to prevent
further rot, labor pains before giving birth to a baby. God works on the
healing of the wounded and broken hearts and that can be VERY painful, but this
pain results in health, restoration and wellness of the heart, mind and spirit.
What is so amazing to me is how quickly we jump into the enemy’s frying pan of destructive
pain while we are running from God’s healing hands!
I believe that God uses and causes every circumstance in our lives to
refine, shape and mold us to be the people and servants He has designed us to
be for His kingdom purposes. We give Satan
WAY too much credit for the things that God has
placed in our lives to refine us. Here are a couple more Old Testament verses
to back this up; in Amos chapter 4 God goes into great detail listing all the
hardships and calamities HE brought upon the Israelites to get them to return
to Him; “I gave
you empty stomachs in every city and lack of bread in every town, yet you have
not returned to me, declares the LORD. I also withheld rain from you when the
harvest was still three months away. I sent rain on one town, but withheld it
from another. One field had rain; another had none and dried up. People staggered from town to town for water
but did not get enough to drink, yet you have not returned to me,"
declares the LORD. Many times I struck your gardens and vineyards, I struck
them with blight and mildew. Locusts devoured your fig and olive trees, yet you
have not returned to me, declares the LORD. I sent plagues among you as I did
to Egypt .
I killed your young men with the sword, along with your captured horses. I
filled your nostrils with the stench of your camps, yet you have not returned
to me, declares the LORD. I overthrew some of you as I overthrew Sodom and Gomorrah .
You were like a burning stick snatched from the fire, yet you have not returned
to me, declares the LORD. Therefore this is what I will do to you, Israel , and because I will do this to you,
prepare to meet your God, O Israel .
He who forms the mountains, creates the wind, and reveals his thoughts to man,
he who turns dawn to darkness, and treads the high places of the earth-- the LORD
God Almighty is his name.” In Deuteronomy it talks about God’s
“blessings” and “curses” for the Israelites that are based on whether they
followed Him or turned away from Him to worship other gods. If they did
turn away from Him, it says in Deuteronomy 29:20 that “The LORD will never be willing to forgive him;
his wrath and zeal will burn against that man. All the curses written in this
book will fall upon him, and the LORD will blot out his name from under
heaven.” Ouch!
The Old Testament is FULL of scriptures like this of God’s warning and/or
punishment that HE is placing on HIS people to get them to “return” to him…
they are not “unbelievers” but HIS chosen people that He is disciplining to
correct their wandering hearts. Tom gave a great description of God’s
discipline, he said it isn’t “punishment” so much as it is like training a
Bonsai Tree which needs pruning, redirecting and reshaping to grow and look the
way we want it to. That is EXACTLY what God is doing in our lives! When we
start to grow in the wrong directions and walk away from Him, He redirects us
by tugging, pruning, poking, and prodding us through our circumstances, to redirect
our steps so He can reshape us into HIS image. The more we fight to have things
our own way, the more drastic measures He will use to get our attention. I have
always said, the most painful part of my walk with the Lord is facing the
ugliness of my own heart when the Lord reveals it to me through my
circumstances.
Anyway, I can think of
several scriptures in the New Testament that talks about “enduring” and expecting pain as a
believer and a disciple of Christ. James 1:2 says “Consider it all Satan’s
fault when you face trials of many kinds…” Oh, wait. That’s not what it says! “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you
face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must
finish its work so that you may be
mature and complete, not lacking anything.” And another one is
in 1 Peter 4: “Dear friends, blame the enemy when you suffer painful trials…”
Oops, that’s not it either. “Dear friends, do not
be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something
strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the
sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed...”
And another one is in Romans 5:3-5
“Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings,
because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character;
and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured
out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.”
If you are looking for it, you can find scriptures like these all throughout
the Bible. Here is another one in Luke 22:31 that reminds me of the one in Job.
Jesus said: “Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift you as
wheat.”…Who did Satan “ask” and who gave him permission? Here is
one last one from the book of Revelation. When God is releasing His “Bowls of Judgment”
it says this of the people; “They were seared by the intense heat and they cursed the
name of God, who had control over these
plagues, but they refused to repent and glorify him.” They KNEW
who was doing these things but their hearts were still so hard, they refused to
acknowledge the Almighty God. So, what I have gathered from these scriptures,
and my experience, is that God will do whatever it takes and whatever He needs
to do to bring us back to Him, bring us
closer to Him so we can know Him better and to transform us into His image… and
if He needs to, He can get that refining fire REALLY HOT!
