Sunday, May 24, 2026

Upside down: The “deceitfulness” of wealth

(Updated and refreshed from October 2011)

"The one who received the seed that fell among the thorns is the man who hears the word, but the … deceitfulness of wealth choke it, making it unfruitful." Matthew 13:22

In my last Upside Down blog, I focused on the “worries of this life” from this passage in Matthew. But there is another part of this verse that deserves attention all on its own: the deceitfulness of wealth.” That little phrase carries a lot of weight. I think the key word here is deceitfulness.

Wealth, in and of itself, is not evil. Scripture never says that money is the problem. In fact, God often blesses people financially throughout the Bible. But what is dangerous is the deception that can come along with it when money begins to take a place in our hearts that belongs to God alone.

As 1 Timothy 6:10 says: “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil…”

Notice it does not say that money is evil. It says the love of money is the issue.

The real danger begins when money becomes our focus, our security, our identity, or our source. An idol is anything we look to as a source apart from God, and money can very easily slip into that role without us even realizing it. Once that happens, we begin making decisions based on abundance or lack instead of seeking what God is saying.

And honestly, this can affect both the rich and the poor. Money can control those who have it, but it can also consume those who don’t. Constant worry over finances, striving for more, fear of not having enough — these things can grip the heart just as tightly.

Jesus said:

“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  Matthew 6:21


The Upside Down Kingdom

So where is the “upside down” aspect of all this?

We were all raised in the systems and thinking of this world, and from what I read in Scripture, God’s perspective on wealth is often completely opposite of the world’s perspective.

The world teaches:

  • Accumulate more.
  • Protect yourself.
  • Store up.
  • Climb higher.
  • Depend on what you own.

But the Kingdom teaches:

  • Trust God daily.
  • Give freely.
  • Hold possessions loosely.
  • Be content.
  • Depend on Him as your source.

Money plays an enormous role in our culture. We earn it, save it, invest it, spend it, borrow it, and chase after it. It influences where we live, what we do, and sometimes even how we value people and ourselves.

So, the question becomes: how much of the world’s mindset about money are we still carrying with us after entering the Kingdom of God?

The Deception of Wealth

Before going further, I want to look again at the word deceitfulness.

One definition of deceit is:

“Concealment or distortion of the truth for the purpose of misleading.”

That is powerful.

Deception works because we often do not realize we are being deceived. Wealth can subtly distort our thinking until we begin trusting in money more than God without even noticing it.

This reminds me of Deuteronomy 11:13-16, "... love the LORD your God and serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul ... lest your heart be deceived, and you turn aside and serve other gods and worship them..." At its core, I believe God is saying:

“Keep your eyes fixed on Me, because the enemy will constantly try to distract you with lesser things.”

And money can be one of the greatest distractions of all.

Blessed to Be a Blessing

I truly believe God delights in blessing His people. Sometimes those blessings are financial. But I also believe many of us misunderstand why He blesses us.

We tend to think:
“I earned this.”
“I deserve this.”
“This is mine.”

But the longer I walk with God, the more I see that He desires us to be conduits of His blessings, not reservoirs that simply collect and store everything for ourselves.

Jesus said:

“Freely you have received, freely give.”  Matthew 10:8

Everything we have ultimately comes from Him, and none of it goes with us when we leave this earth.

The blessings of God were never meant for us to keep to ourselves. 

Daily Bread Dependence

Another deception surrounding wealth is the belief that if we can save enough, store enough, or secure enough for the future, then we will no longer need to rely so much on God.

Most people would never consciously say that, of course. But if we are honest, sometimes that is what lies underneath our striving for security.

We fear lack.
We fear uncertainty.
We fear needing to trust God too much.

But Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:25-34 not to worry about our lives, because our heavenly Father already knows what we need.

I think often about the Israelites in the wilderness and the manna God provided each morning. They were instructed to gather only what they needed for that day. If they tried to hoard it, it spoiled and filled with maggots.

Why? Because God was teaching them dependence.

He wanted them to learn:
“I will provide for you tomorrow just like I provided for you today.”

Even their clothes and sandals did not wear out during those forty years in the wilderness. That kind of daily trust is completely upside down from the world’s way of thinking.

The Dead Sea Syndrome

I once heard someone compare this principle to the Dead Sea.

The Dead Sea receives water, but it has no outlet. Because there is no flow outward, the water stagnates and nothing thrives there.

I think our hearts can become the same way spiritually.

When blessings only flow to us but never through us, something begins to stagnate inside us. We slowly stop relying on God and begin relying on what we have stored up instead (see Luke 12:15-21)

God designed His blessings to flow. Not just for our benefit, but so others can encounter His goodness through us.

Rich Toward God

Jesus spoke very directly about wealth because He knew how easily it could capture the human heart.

He warned:

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven… For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  Matthew 6:19-21

And again:

“Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.”  Luke 12:15

The issue was never simply possessions. The issue was always the heart.

Are we rich in possessions but poor in dependence on God?
Are we storing up treasures on earth while neglecting eternal treasure?
Are we trusting in wealth more than we trust in Him?

Those are difficult questions, but important ones.

Final Thoughts

So, to wrap this up, I believe the “deceitfulness” of wealth is the subtle lie that what we have belongs solely to us, exists for us alone, and can ultimately provide what only God can provide.

That mindset is completely upside down from the Kingdom of God.

God calls us to trust Him daily, to hold earthly things loosely, and to become vessels through which His blessings can flow freely to others.

He alone is our source.

Father, I pray that You would give us all a revelation of the areas that money (or the love of it) may have gotten a hold of us and allowed the enemy to deceive us.  Please reveal the truth of the deception as well as the truth of Your desire to provide for us in all ways.  Help us to trust You more and more for our daily provision and learn to look to You for all of our needs. In Jesus’ name, amen.


Selah / Reflection

Take a moment and ask yourself:

  • What role does money truly play in my heart?
  • Do I see God as my source, or do I feel safer trusting in what I can control?
  • Am I holding tightly to what God has given me, or am I willing to let His blessings flow through me?

Sometimes the greatest deception is not obvious greed, but subtle dependence.

May we learn what it means to trust our Father for our “daily bread” and find our security in Him alone.

“Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.” 1 Timothy 6:17


Sunday, May 3, 2026

Transitions of Life

 “In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” John 14:2-3

When you hear, or think of, the word "transitions" what comes to mind?

Is it transitioning from one job to another? From one season of life to another—getting married, becoming a parent or grandparent? Seasonal transitions from winter to spring, summer to fall, weather transitions… Sun rises or sun sets. Or even something as simple as transitioning from sleep to wakefulness?

The word transition is broad and can encompass many things, including both the mundane and the extraordinary. Lately that word has been rolling around in my head and settling deeper into my heart.

In January of this year, I held the hand of a good friend who passed from this temporal world into the eternal. If you have never experienced that profound transition, it is not something anyone can describe. Much like giving birth to a child, every experience is unique and very personal. Until you experience it first hand, the concept and understanding can be hard to grasp.

Thankfully my elderly friend was ready for this transition. At 95 years old, she had lived a full and very blessed life. In her final days she was suffering from a painful condition and was asking God to take her home to be with her loved ones who had gone before her.

To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.”  2 Corinthians 5:8

I understand that not everyone experiences this kind of transition, but regardless of how it unfolds, the transition still happens and is just as real and significant.

When we witness this kind of moment, and transition, I think it is in our best interest to take some time to ponder and meditate on this incredible miracle. Because what if, what we witnessed, was not just an ending but a beginning?

Not unlike a newborn baby transitioning from the womb into this world, an entirely new existence, those who leave this life are stepping into another. One life giving way to the next. Another type of birth, from the temporal into the eternal.

In both birth and death, there is a crossing over. In both, there is letting go of one reality to enter another. And in both, there is a holy moment where heaven meets earth in ways we don’t fully understand.

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart…” — Ecclesiastes 3:11

Because of my elderly friend’s passing Tom and I are looking at a transition of our own. A different type of transition but still significant to us.

For the last year and a half, we had the privilege of living with her, and caring for her, so that she could remain in her home. As it turned out, this was a two-way street. She cared for us while we cared for her. It was a wonderful season of ministry for both of us.

Now that season has passed along with her. We are still in her home for the moment, but we don’t yet know where we are going next. And in many ways, that feels like its own kind of birth.

And that’s where faith meets transition.

Tom and I have talked, prayed, searched, and considered different possibilities. But at the end of the day, we find ourselves in a familiar place—waiting on the Lord. We have given our lives to Him fully. And time and time again, He has proven Himself faithful in ways we could have never orchestrated on our own.

So, we wait… not passively, but expectantly.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”  Proverbs 3:5–6

Interestingly, this transition feels different.

For the first time in over 18 years, we are completely free to go anywhere. Since 2008, when I began working for my friend, there has always been a sense of staying—of being rooted here for her. And it was desired and intentional. But now, that assignment is complete.

Other areas of our lives have shifted as well. In addition to not caring for elderly people, we are no longer life coaching or leading groups, and our family is spread across the country. There’s nothing tying us to one specific place.

We are established here—with doctors, insurance, and dear friends. So, if God leads us to stay, we will receive that with gratitude and certainly will not complain, lol. But our hearts are open.

“Here I am, Lord… send me.”

“Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?’ And I said, ‘Here am I. Send me!’”  Isaiah 6:8

At the core of it all, our deepest desire is to be used by God.

The years we spent living at the B&B were filled with moments of ministry that were nothing short of miraculous. This past season with our elderly friend was different—but no less meaningful or miraculous.

And now… we sense that God is preparing something new. Preparing to open a door to our new assignment.

So here we are. Waiting. Listening. Trusting. Standing in the space between what was and what will be. A new birth.

'Speak, LORD, for your servant is listening.' "  1 Samuel 3: 9

Father, thank You for the gift of transitions—even when they feel uncertain or uncomfortable. Thank You that You are present in both the endings and the beginnings. Teach us to trust You in the waiting. Strengthen us, refine us, and shape us into who You are calling us to be for what lies ahead and for Your glory. With all my love, Linda


Selah: Reflection and Pause

Every transition carries within it both an ending and a beginning.

But often, we focus so much on what we’re leaving behind that we miss what God is forming within us.

What if this season you’re in… is not just a waiting room—but a womb?

A place where something new is being shaped, prepared, and brought to life in God’s perfect timing.

Take a moment to reflect:

  • What transition are you currently walking through?
  • Does it feel more like an ending… or a beginning?
  • What might God be forming in you during this in-between season?

The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”  Exodus 14:14


“Remember the former things, those of long ago; I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me. I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times, what is still to come. I say: My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please.” Isaiah 46: 9-10