Showing posts with label Jesus. Show all posts
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Monday, June 29, 2026

Upside Down: Humility vs. Pride

(Refreshed from November 2011)

 "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart..." (Matthew 11:29)

I have been thinking about the word “humility” for a few years now.  The Lord continues to bring it to mind as a quality He holds very dear. Because of that, it is something I desire to exhibit in my life. I hear Jesus’ invitation over and over again: “…learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart...” Matthew 11:29.

Humility

As I read, or listen, to the Bible, I see humility woven throughout its pages. It's found in the Law, the Prophets, the Psalms, Proverbs, the lives of God's servants, and throughout the New Testament. God is very consistent with communicating the things He values, and humility appears to be one of them. 

I have come to the conclusion that if we desire to know God, and want to be a disciple of the Lord, we will also need to come to know true humility because they are one and the same.

So, before writing this blog, I thought I should look the word up to make sure I knew what it really meant!!  You know how you go about “thinking” you know what a word means only to discover you were mistaken…? 

This is what I discovered; several dictionary definitions described humility as freedom from pride, a modest view of oneself, and a recognition of our own weakness and imperfections.

Along the way I also came across two sayings that helped me with the definition:

"Humility is a strange thing. The minute you think you've got it, you've lost it."

And,

"Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it's thinking of yourself less."

I loved the second one! But there is certainly truth in both of those statements.

As it turns out, after going through this research, and talking about it with Tom, I am walking away with even more questions than when I started.

Because I don't believe biblical humility is the same thing as thinking you're worthless. Nor do I believe it is false humility, where we constantly put ourselves down. And it certainly isn't unhealthy codependency, something I have personally struggled with over the years.

So what is it?

I think I'm beginning to understand it this way.

True humility is knowing exactly who you are apart from Christ—and exactly who you are because of Christ.

Apart from Him, I am a sinner who can do nothing to earn God's favor. But because of Him, I am redeemed, forgiven, deeply loved, and bought with an incredible price.

It’s not that we feel like we are weak and worthless, it’s that we KNOW who we are in Christ and we are completely reliant upon Him and our confidence rests in Him and not in ourselves or our own abilities. We know that even at our worst, Christ loved us enough to die for us. Again, it isn't confidence in ourselves. It's confidence in Christ.

The more we recognize our desperate need for Him, the less consumed we become with promoting ourselves. Our focus gradually shifts away from our own desires, ambitions, and recognition, and toward loving Him and serving His Kingdom.

Maybe that's why humility actually requires tremendous strength. The world often sees humility as weakness. Jesus demonstrated exactly the opposite.

It takes incredible courage to surrender your own agenda, lay down your rights, trust God's timing, and rely completely upon Him. There is nothing weak about that.

This is where I believe God's Kingdom becomes completely upside down.

Our culture constantly tells us to pursue ourselves.

Protect yourself.

Promote yourself.

Believe in yourself.

Take care of yourself first.

You deserve more.

You deserve recognition.

You deserve comfort.

You deserve success.

Everything points back to self. But Jesus points in the opposite direction. He teaches us to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow Him.

The world tells us to climb higher. Jesus teaches us to kneel lower.

The world says the greatest person is the one being served. Jesus says the greatest is the servant of all.

One kingdom is built on pride. The other is built on humility.

As I continued thinking about this, I found myself looking at some of the people God specifically describes as humble. It is said of Moses; “Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth.” (Numbers 12:3).

Then there is David, a man after God’s own heart. Although he had already been anointed king, he refused to seize the throne from Saul. Instead, he waited for God's timing. David trusted that if God had made the promise, God would also fulfill it.

Then there is Daniel, whom the angel of the Lord said “… Since the first day that you set your mind to gain understanding and to humble yourself before your God, your words were heard…” Daniel 10:12.

Daniel experienced both honor and humiliation. One day he belonged to Judah's nobility; the next he was a captive in Babylon. Yet throughout it all, he remained faithful, dependent upon God, and unwilling to compromise.

Then, of course, we come to Jesus. If anyone had noble birth, and the right to exalt Himself, it was Him. Yet He laid aside the glory of heaven to become one of us and entered life as a helpless baby.

Paul writes in 2 Corinthians, “… though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich.”

Jesus, the only truly sinless person who has ever lived chose mercy instead of condemnation. Compassion instead of superiority. Forgiveness instead of judgment. Jesus didn't merely teach humility. He embodied it.

As Tom and I continued talking about this, the word intercession came up. 

Jesus intercedes for us before the Father. Moses interceded for Israel. David interceded for his people as a king of Israel. Daniel prayed and confessed the sins of his nation as though they were his own.

None of them stood above the people they prayed for. They stood with them. Could this be another example of humility?

Here is another thought. Oswald always talks about God’s nature in us, that the Father speaks to His Holy Spirit who is in us. Here is a quote along those lines: “There is no possibility of questioning God when He speaks, if He speaks to His own nature in me. Prompt obedience is the only result. When Jesus says, "Come," I simply come; when He says, "Let go," I let go; when He says, "Trust God in this matter," I trust. This work of obedience is the evidence that the nature of God is in me.” (My Utmost for His highest, November 17th)

So, the thought is, since Jesus is “gentle and humble at heart” and His Spirit is in us, and if our desire is what John the Baptist said: "He must become greater; I must become less." (John 3:30), then could God be working the attributes of Christ in us as we yield, obey, and die to ourselves?

Could it be that Christ’s humility surfaces in us as we surrender our will and ways and allow Him to be Lord of our lives? Maybe humility isn't something we manufacture. Maybe it's something Christ produces within us.

Ok, this is where I have landed on this upside-down subject. The world values pride and self-reliance, The Kingdom values surrender and reliance upon God.

The more I look at Jesus, the more I realize humility isn't weakness. It's trusting God enough that we no longer have to protect, promote, or prove ourselves. Our lives are safely held in His hands.

But of course, I am still learning, asking questions and allowing God to shape my understanding.

What about you? I would love to hear YOUR thoughts. How do you define humility?  How has God taught you what it means?

Oh, Father in heaven, please help us to focus on Your truths and Your Kingdom principles and Your ways and not the worlds. Lord, show us what true humility is and what it looks like. Help us to rid ourselves of pride, arrogance and self-righteousness and instead, embrace true humility which brings you delight. Thank you Lord for Your Holy Spirit that will continue to teach and show us how to walk in Your ways and in Your humility.  I pray that you give us the courage and the strength to follow in Your footsteps.  In Jesus’ name I pray, amen!

“Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” Colossians 3:12

Selah

 

Humility is one of the great paradoxes of God's Kingdom. The world tells us to elevate ourselves, but Jesus invites us to lay ourselves down. Pride clings to control; humility rests in God's hands.

 

Perhaps humility isn't about having a low opinion of ourselves at all. Perhaps it's about having such a high view of Christ that self gradually moves out of the center.

 

When Christ becomes our confidence, we no longer have to prove our worth, defend our reputation, or strive for recognition. We are free to love, to serve, and to trust the One who holds our future.

 

Questions for Reflection

 

·        Where do I find myself striving to protect or promote myself?

·        Do I find my confidence in my own abilities or in Christ?

·        Is there someone God is calling me to pray for or serve with greater compassion?

·        What would "less of me and more of Him" look like in my life this week?

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus..." (Philippians 2:3–5)


Saturday, February 16, 2019

I Saw Satan Fall Like Lightning - Part Two


"The seventy-two returned with joy and said, "Lord, even the demons submit to us in your name." He replied, "I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven . I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven." Luke 10:17-20


In the first part of this blog I highlighted three area’s I felt like Jesus was addressing in this scripture; A reminder that Satan has FALLEN (i.e. no longer in power or in charge), becoming more aware of where our FOCUS is, on Satan, miracles or on God, and becoming more aware of where PRIDE sneaks in. Today I would like to hone in on the “where is our focus” part.

Idols of the heart
In the above Luke scripture I feel like, even though Jesus sent out the 72 to do miracles in His name, that certainly wasn’t what He wanted us to focus on. I really do believe that He has given us the power through the Holy Spirit to do amazing miracles but I am beginning to understand just how LOW on the priority list this is for God and that it should be at least that low for us too. And as I mentioned in the first part of this blog, he can even call us “evil doers” after doing miracles in his name!

I have come to believe, if we are not very careful, working for God, going to church, Bible studies, good works, becoming a missionary and even doing miracles can become IDOLS of the heart that take the place of God and our relationship with Him! It seems that we would rather do ANYTHING but BE with HIM and develop an intimate relationship with Him! And I am just as guilty as the next person… I spent most of my Christian walk doing that very thing!! I certainly “meant” well, thinking that all my “works” were doing SOMETHING for the Kingdom… But was it?? It certainly didn’t help my relationship with the Lord!

After I got the revelation about the Luke scripture I started to hear other scriptures that were along the same lines including this Matthew scripture I cited in the first part:
"Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles? Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!'  Matthew 7:21-23 (An interesting thing to me is that, apparently we can do miraculous signs and wonders, in the name of Jesus, and NOT know him!!?? Hmmmm…)

A Wicked and adulterous generation…
Here is one of those scriptures:

"Then some of the Pharisees and teachers of the law said to him, "Teacher, we want to see a miraculous sign from you. He answered, "A wicked and adulterous generation asks for a miraculous sign! But none will be given it except the sign of the prophet Jonah." Matthew 12:38-39

When I heard that I was like, “What!?” A wicked and adulterous generation… ASKS for a miraculous sign!? Isn’t that what WE do?? DOH!! And this isn’t a “one off” statement. He says it a few times. 

Here are the other ones I found:

"The Pharisees and Sadducees came to Jesus and tested him by asking him to show them a sign from heaven. He replied, "When evening comes, you say, 'It will be fair weather, for the sky is red,' and in the morning, 'Today it will be stormy, for the sky is red and overcast.' You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times. A wicked and adulterous generation looks for a miraculous sign, but none will be given it except the sign of Jonah." Jesus then left them and went away." Matthew 16:1-4 

"As Jesus was saying these things, a woman in the crowd called out, "Blessed is the mother who gave you birth and nursed you." He replied, "Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it." As the crowds increased, Jesus said, "This is a wicked generation. It asks for a miraculous sign, but none will be given it except the sign of Jonah." Luke 11:27-29

"The Pharisees came and began to question Jesus. To test him, they asked him for a sign from heaven. He sighed deeply and said, "Why does this generation ask for a miraculous sign? I tell you the truth, no sign will be given to it." Mar 8:11-12

Temporal or Eternal?

I think this is another example for me that confirms that we REALLY don’t have a CLUE what Jesus means when He says things! Mostly because we are thinking “temporal” and He is always thinking “eternal”. What is valuable us is “detestable to God”! (“He said to them, "You are the ones who justify yourselves in the eyes of men, but God knows your hearts. What is highly valued among men is detestable in God's sight.” Luke 16:15)

He knows our hearts better than WE do and He knows that, doing more than miracles, is required to turn the hearts of men towards him (“Even after Jesus had done all these miraculous signs in their presence, they still would not believe in him.” John 12:37)

And again, when we are so focused on Satan, casting him out, rebuking him and renouncing him, our focus is wrong because he is already defeated! Satan has NO power that God does not give to him… (“Jesus answered, "You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin." John 19:11)

“Now is the time for judgment on this world; now the prince of this world will be driven out.” John 12:31

“But I tell you the truth: It is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Counselor will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you. When he comes, he will convict the world of guilt in regard to sin and righteousness and judgment: in regard to sin, because men do not believe in me; in regard to righteousness, because I am going to the Father, where you can see me no longer; and in regard to judgment, because the prince of this world now stands condemned.” John 16:7-11

Big vs. Small
It is SO tempting to want to do miracles, big and small, because it is exciting and, if you are like me, the attention is pretty cool too! But if we look at Jesus’ example, He was all about doing things quietly, simply, and he did just the things that were in front of Him that day… He was interested in the people and ministering to their hearts in the ways that the Father told Him to and not to get attention. In fact he told several people NOT to tell anyone what He did for them (Matthew 8:4, Matthew 17:9). Our greatest ministry to others, and for Him, is in doing the small, simple things that make a difference to the unnoticed people around us… The janitor, the clerk, the checkout person, the server, the cleaning crew, the homeless person… Our love and kindness poured out on those people are the REAL miracles and what really counts in the “eternal” perspective because they came from the heart of LOVE! And it isn’t something that we consciously do but it is done from the outpouring of God’s love, the overflow, that naturally spills out when our focus is on HIM and our relationship with Him.

“Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?' The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.' Matthew 25:37-39

In this scripture the “righteous” were “unaware” of the ministry they were doing for others because they had a “right relationship” with God and it was “as natural as breathing” for them (another Oswaldism).

Speaking of Oswald, here is an excerpt that goes along these lines:

September 6th Oswald: "...A river reaches places which its source never knows. And Jesus said that, if we have received His fullness, "rivers of living water" will flow out of us, reaching in blessing even "to the end of the earth" (Act_1:8) regardless of how small the visible effects of our lives may appear to be. We have nothing to do with the outflow ---  "This is the work of God, that you believe . . ." (Joh_6:29). God rarely allows a person to see how great a blessing he is to others."


I truly believe that when we DO know what a blessing we are to others, our PRIDE steps in and makes it all about “me”. Jesus knows our struggle with pride so keeping things easy and simple, focusing on HIM and trusting Him with the rest, is the BEST thing for us. I love this next story because it is a good example how we try to do things we really don’t understand:

"Some Jews who went around driving out evil spirits tried to invoke the name of the Lord Jesus over those who were demon- possessed. They would say, "In the name of Jesus, whom Paul preaches, I command you to come out." Seven sons of Sceva, a Jewish chief priest, were doing this. One day the evil spirit answered them, "Jesus I know, and I know about Paul, but who are you?" Then the man who had the evil spirit jumped on them and overpowered them all. He gave them such a beating that they ran out of the house naked and bleeding.'" Acts 19:13-16

To heal or not to heal?

Many people feel like the Bible teaches that we should not be ill or sick and that God wants everyone to be healthy. I can certainly see why they would think that with some scriptures, but my personal belief and sticking to the “eternal” perspective, is that we ARE healed in the only way that truly counts which is “eternally”! We have been healed by the sacrifice of Jesus which re-established the connection to God and secured our eternity with Him… NOTHING else really matters after that. We are all dying from the moment we are born into this temporal world but we have our TRUE home and healing in eternity and that is really all that matters. Everyone that Jesus and the disciples healed, died…

Even the disciples, being given the power to heal so many, couldn’t heal everyone:  
"As you know, it was because of an illness that I first preached the gospel to you. Even though my illness was a trial to you, you did not treat me with contempt or scorn. Instead, you welcomed me as if I were an angel of God, as if I were Christ Jesus himself." Galatians 4:13 

"Stop drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses." 1 Titus 5:23 

"Erastus stayed in Corinth, and I left Trophimus sick in Miletus."  2 Timothy 4:20 

"But I think it is necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger, whom you sent to take care of my needs. For he longs for all of you and is distressed because you heard he was ill. Indeed he was ill, and almost died. But God had mercy on him, and not on him only but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow." Philippians 2:25-27

Here is another great excerpt from Oswald on this subject:
December 2 Oswald: "...It is a trap to presume that God wants to make us perfect specimens of what He can do --- God's purpose is to make us one with Himself. The emphasis of holiness movements tends to be that God is producing specimens of holiness to put in His museum. If you accept this concept of personal holiness, your life's determined purpose will not be for God, but for what you call the evidence of God in your life. How can we say, "It could never be God's will for me to be sick"? If it was God's will to bruise His own Son (Isa_53:10), why shouldn't He bruise you? What shines forth and reveals God in your life is not your relative consistency to an idea of what a saint should be, but your genuine, living relationship with Jesus Christ, and your unrestrained devotion to Him whether you are well or sick."

Summary

So to wrap this up, I have come to understand that ALL things are designed and orchestrated BY GOD for my GOOD and HIS Glory (sickness, difficulties, struggles and trials) and ALL my attention needs to be on HIM and not on the enemy of our souls whom HE has already defeated. Or on miracles, signs and wonders as they can become my focus and ignite my pride. When I seek HIM FIRST He will take care of everything else! (Matthew 6:33)

What am I looking at or focused on!? Again with the Luke scripture I am hearing Jesus saying “Are you more impressed with the authority I gave you, or are you focused on ME and what God has accomplished through me?” (Am I looking for the blessings of God or am I looking for GOD who has the blessings? Oswald).

We have such a huge tendency to get derailed from our goal of building intimacy with Jesus. We can so easily get distracted by “shiny things” at every turn, thinking we are doing the “right” thing or doing something “good” for God… Serving, feeding the homeless, healing, casting out demons… When all He really wants is for us to be with HIM. Love the Lord your God with ALL your heart… I believe that signs and wonders, miracles and healings can be one of the very things that distract us from doing what is “best” (The enemy of our faith is not sin, but the good that is not the best” Oswald). Yes, we do have the authority to cast out demons and to heal but I believe that is also a trap to derail us from what our real focus should be! (“…do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you…).

Where is my focus today? Is it on my Lord, or on things I can do for Him?

Thank you Lord for showing this to me and for helping me to keep my focus on YOU and You alone. I pray that we all get a greater revelation of this truth so we can truly marvel in Your amazing love for us and learn to keep our eyes on You and You alone!

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

The Plumb Line…

“Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6


As I have mentioned before, I have been listening to the gospels and Revelation over and over again because Jesus speaks to us in these books. I have LOVED doing this because it helps me get to know Jesus, and imprint on Him and learn what is important to HIM. After doing this for almost three years now I am getting a much better feel for His truths and replacing the lies I have believed with the truth according to HIM. This has been a remarkable journey!! To say that it has been transforming would be an understatement. I guess you can say that I am becoming more and more familiar with the “Plumb line” of our faith! Our “True North”, the ROCK and foundation for our lives.

I used the term “Plumb line” because that is what came to mind when I wanted to write this blog. Here is the definition of plumb line:  1:a line (as of cord) that has at one end a weight (such as a plumb bob) and is used especially to determine verticality 2:a line directed to the center of gravity of the earth :a vertical line

And along those same lines here is a “chalk line” definition: A chalk line or chalk box is a tool for marking long, straight lines on relatively flat surfaces, much farther than is practical by hand or with a straightedge. They may be used to lay out straight lines between two points, or vertical lines by using the weight of the line reel as a plumb line. It is an important tool in carpentry…  (I thought “important tool in carpentry” was a cool reference since Jesus was a carpenter too!)

As I understand it, these tools are used to determine the straightest, truest vertical and horizontal lines possible. To make sure that everything that is done or built afterwards is straight and true for a good solid structure and foundation.

So, with that said, every once in a while I will go from listening to the gospels to listening to the whole New Testament, because I know there is a lot of good stuff in the other books as well. But, a very interesting thing has happened the last couple of times I have done this! I am finding that there are times that what is said in the other books do not always line up with what Jesus says! Are you surprised!? I know I was! And I will definitely give you some examples in a bit so you can see what I mean for yourself.

If Jesus is the “Plumb line” on which we build the foundation of our faith, then I think it is super important that we KNOW what He said, don’t you? Yes, yes… I too thought I knew what Jesus said, but what I am finding out is that I really DIDN’T know Jesus’ words the way I thought I did, but only what I was taught and told by others, and then I too passed that misinformation on. Yes, we were well intentioned but we learned it wrong from someone else and now we are playing the “telephone” game, passing on information from others, adding our own thoughts and misunderstandings as they go through our own doctrinal filters without checking with our Plumb Line. And then we try to build our faith on these rickety foundations that will only fall apart when tested. I think we can all say we have experienced something like that at some point in time, and then we wondered what happened, right?! We might have even blamed God for hurtful and painful events and may even still be angry at Him for something we thought we understood about Him or His promises that didn’t happen the way we thought it would/should!

Yes, I DO believe that God put the Bible together and that it is ALL HIS Word, and everything that is in the Bible is supposed to be there! But, maybe there are some things in there that we have to discern as to what we will apply to our lives as truth and what is just something said by the person who wrote it? Like in all things of “faith” we have a choice as to what we will believe. Let’s take the apostle Paul for example. As I read his writings there are times I think to myself, “WOW! That was brilliant and definitely Spirit inspired!” And other times he says things and I think to myself “Ok, that was just ‘Paul’ and not so much Spirit led”.

Don’t get me wrong here, I LOVE Paul and think he wrote some amazing and insightful stuff, and I don’t mean to pick on him, but he is a very good example of the point I want to make. We tend to think of the Biblical characters, especially the apostles, as “special” and almost super human but they were just normal people, like you and me, who God used to do His work. Paul, and the others, were just regular guys, and therefore capable of making mistakes, well-meaning but just human. But Jesus was God AND man and He didn’t make mistakes. So, whose words and instructions should we KNOW, pay the most attention to and follow? Which books of the Bible should we know more than any others?

Paul was raised as a Pharisee and was most definitely what we would call a “type A personality”! He did everything with his whole being! He even said that of himself in these scriptures: “My brothers, I am a Pharisee, the son of a Pharisee.” Acts 23:6.  “…circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for legalistic righteousness, faultless...” Philippians 3:5. And I think that is exactly why Jesus chose him! Because whatever he did, he did it with his whole heart! He was ALL IN all the time! But, as passionate as he was, he was still human, and not perfect.

So, as I have listened to some of Paul’s letters I can’t help but think that maybe he slipped in and out of his “Pharisaical roots”. There are times when he preached grace, love and forgiveness but then every once in a while he slips into the law, legalism and religion. Also in his humanness he confesses several times of being “afraid” and in that fear he tries to “control” the thinking and actions of the churches, enforcing rules and regulations to keep the people in line instead of trusting God with them. And in his humanness he gets hurt, frustrated and angry, just like us! But, I don’t see Jesus doing that at all! Jesus trusts God and the Holy Spirit in all ways and at all times. And of course I don’t have to tell you that there was NO fear in Him. He was not intimidated by men or demons and only did what the Father told Him to do in absolute love, kindness, mercy, grace and compassion. And He is our example of how we need to behave and treat others. So we really need to KNOW what He said and use HIS words as our foundation and True North, not Paul, Peter, James or John, not our Pastors, and not anyone else in our lives. We have to take EVERYTHING back to our ROCK and Plumb Line to make sure we have it right. I am not saying to disregard what others say but to line it up with what Jesus said to make sure it matches up with His words of Truth.

Ok, as promised earlier, here are a couple of scriptural comparisons between Paul and Jesus:

Paul:
“Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him.” Titus 3:10

“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God-- having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.” 2 Timothy 3:1-5

Jesus:

“You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. … If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? ....” Matthew 5:38-48

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:34-35

What I hear Paul saying is to have nothing to do with people that are sinners and broken, and not exhibiting what he would consider “Christian” behavior. Tom says he thinks Paul has a hard time with allowing people to be “in process” and in transition. Since Paul’s experience was sudden and miraculous he may not understand that it takes most us of YEARS to overcome addictions, past hurts and brokenness. What Jesus is saying is that we need to LOVE everyone, at all times and at all stages of our journey, even our enemies and those who are not easy to be around, you know, those difficult people that we ALL struggle with.

Paul:
 “I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people--not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked man from among you." 1 Corinthians 5:9-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? …” 2 Corinthians 6:14-18

Jesus:
“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Luke 6:27-31

“While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners." Matthew 9:10-13

“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” Luke 6:36-37

“For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Matthew 7:2

Again, Paul is placing himself in the seat of “judgment” on believers AND unbelievers who don’t meet his criteria, saying not to have anything to do with them but that is exactly who Jesus hung out with! Jesus was criticized for spending time with tax collectors and sinners but He said to the religious leaders, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor but the sick”. And then He says “In the same way you judge, you will be judged…”… Oh boy.

Paul:
“But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent's cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 11:3

“For I am afraid that when I come I may not find you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to be. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder. I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have indulged.” 2 Corinthians 12:20-21

“For this reason, when I could stand it no longer, I sent to find out about your faith. I was afraid that in some way the tempter might have tempted you and our efforts might have been useless.” 1 Thessalonians 3:5

Jesus:
“Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” Matthew 10:29-31

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27 (There are MANY scriptures of Jesus saying “do not be afraid”, and you can do a search for them, but I just picked out these two)

In our “fear” we do things and make decisions that are not beneficial or Godly. I tell the ladies I meet with not to make decisions based on fear, anger, guilt, shame or condemnation because they rarely turn out well. But instead to wait for “peace” and for God’s leading. I think Paul made some emotional, “knee jerk” reactions and decisions with the churches as he was trying to guide them. I know I have done that very same thing and have had to apologize many times!! Ministering to people can be really hard and frustrating but Jesus was always steady and confident, full of love and always went right to the heart of the matter, which was their need for Him, NOT condemning them for their sin.

Paul:

 “… A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. But women will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.” 1 Timothy 2:9-15

“Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self- controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. …” 1 Timothy 3:1-10

“Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel.” 1 Corinthians 4:15

Jesus:

“Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave--just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." Matthew 20:25-26

“But you are not to be called 'Rabbi,' for you have only one Master and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth 'father,' for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Nor are you to be called 'teacher,' for you have one Teacher, the Christ.” Matthew 23:8–10

“When you are brought before synagogues, rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say." Luke 12:11-12

“It is written in the Prophets: 'They will all be taught by God.' Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me.” John 6:45

In the 1 Timothy 2 scripture, about women, this was most definitely “Paul” laying down rules and laws that were not taught by Jesus… But actually, I DO agree that neither a woman NOR a man should have ANY authority over us… ONLY God. When we elevate a man, or woman, it only places them in a position to FALL. How many Pastors and ministers over the years have you heard of that have fallen!? We were never meant to be in authority over each other but to be brothers and sisters in the Lord. Paul says that setting our hearts on being an overseer is a noble task but Jesus specifically says NOT to do that. We have only one teacher and that is Jesus and one Father and that is God.

In the 1 Timothy 3 scripture (which I cut short but you can look it up and read it all) he is laying down a very LONG list of the standards and qualifications of what an overseer should be but Tom commented that those sounded more like the qualifications for a Pharisee! Looking good on the outside but there’s no way to know his heart. In the earlier days, right after Jesus ascended, the only qualifications for a deacon was that they be “full of the Spirit and wisdom” (Acts 6:3) Jesus always looks at the heart. HE chose uneducated fishermen, a tax-collector, a rejected woman at the well who had been married 5 times, a demon possessed man, a leper, a blind man, etc. (The First Evangelists... How low can you go). The only qualifications were that they loved him and wanted to follow Him. It was their testimony of what God did for them that had power not their qualifications according to man. (“They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony…” Revelation 12:11)

Can you see what I am saying now? In Paul’s scriptures he is saying not to associate with sinners, having nothing to do with certain people, assigning overseers, making decisions based on “fear” and trying to control people with rules, regulations and standards that Jesus didn’t teach. With Jesus, He was ALL about hanging out with the sinners, loving, serving and trusting God with teaching and directing His followers. Whose instructions are we to follow??

Oh, how quickly we can fall back on our “human understanding” and leave the teachings of Jesus! If Paul did it, how much more will we if we aren’t intentional and determined to get to know our Plumb Line! I have SO been guilty of passing on incorrect information because I didn’t know Jesus like I should have and relied on others to teach me, so now I am determined to know ONLY Him, the truth and nothing but the truth, and I am taking responsibility for my own relationship, trusting God and the Holy Spirit to reveal the things I need to know as I listen to HIS words.

I certainly don’t want to sound too simplistic here. What Jesus says to do is HARD and we certainly CAN’T do it on our own! Isn’t it so much easier to not have anything to do with sinners and difficult Christians, and make up rules and regulations to protect ourselves and have more control over things? Oh yeah, it is! And we certainly can’t give what we don’t have! And if we don’t have a relationship with Jesus that pours out of us love, grace and forgiveness than we probably shouldn’t have anything to do with those people until we DO have it!

Tom made a great point regarding the scripture when Jesus reached out and touched the leper, he said that Jesus wasn’t intimidated by his sin and it wasn’t contagious to Him, but that His love and healing was more contagious to those around Him! What a great visual! WE would be terrified to touch a leper because we wouldn’t want to “catch” it, but Jesus knew His healing was more contagious than the leprosy! When we are FULL of GOD and His grace and wisdom we will be contagious too! So, we can be around anyone when we are aligned with our Plumb Line and not get impatient, frustrated or hurt and we will not be swayed or pulled into undesired sin and debauchery but instead, we can pull them into the Kingdom! As Oswald says, when we have the RIGHT relationship with Him and when we are completely and totally surrendered and relying only on Jesus, our ministry to Him happens as naturally as breathing!

Here is another scripture from Jesus that confirms what I am saying:
“Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? (Ouch!) I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete." Luke 6:46-49

Thanks for hanging in there with me! I hope it was worth it to you! But please, don’t take MY word for it, find out for yourself! Read the gospels and Revelation over and over again, for years! Hear what Jesus says and you will be amazed at the transformation you will experience!! I am looking forward to what He will show me next!  :)

Again, MOST of what Paul says is brilliant and very much Holy Spirit led so I will leave you with one of my favorites:

“However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me--the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace.” Acts 20:24


Father, I am so thankful for your grace and forgiveness! I am also thankful for your Truth that sets us free from sin and death. I am thankful that Your Truth brings Peace and Freedom! I pray for all of us Lord that we will endeavor to know only You and Your Truth. Help us to remove the lies we have believed and give us courage, strength and perseverance to pursue You, and only You, at all times, at all costs so we will know without a doubt the Plumb Line of our faith, our True North and the Rock of our salvation! In your name I pray, amen!