Wednesday, August 8, 2018

"Treat them like a pagan or tax collector..."



"...If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.” Matthew 18:15-17

Recently a friend and I were talking and she had a question about how to handle a difficult situation with someone else she knew. She brought up this  scripture and asked/wondered if it was applicable; “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.” Matthew 18:15-17 

My initial response to my friend was, NO, that isn’t the way to handle it, and then asked, who said that verse anyway? It just didn’t seem “Jesus” like to disassociate with them… So, after she left I asked Tom who said that scripture and he said “Jesus did!” I was like… No way, really?! (You would think I would have known that considering how many times I have listened to the Gospels!! DOH!). But then something very interesting happened.

I went to that verse and read the whole chapter. I discovered something really important here. After reading the whole context, I discovered that MY “understanding” of what Jesus meant by this statement was VERY different than what HE meant by it! My knee jerk emotional response was to think “negatively” about how we should treat the pagans and tax collectors… i.e. shun them, disassociate with them, ignore them… (This was very eye opening for me and I am feeling a bit embarrassed about it!) But, that is not at ALL what Jesus meant by that statement!! Let’s look at the lead in scripture; “What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.” Matthew 18:12-14. THIS is the heart of Jesus!! He was seeing the person who sinned against us as a “lost sheep” that needed to be found!

Then I started to think about all the scriptures that state that Jesus spent more time with the Tax collectors and sinners than He did with the “righteous” people! Here are just a few: “While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners." Matthew 9:10-13

“The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, 'Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners”...” Matthew 11:19

“Which of the two did what his father wanted? "The first," they answered. Jesus said to them, "I tell you the truth, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.” Matthew 21:31-32

“A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. He wanted to see who Jesus was, but being a short man he could not, because of the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way. When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, "Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today." So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly.” Luke 19:2-6

He even chose a tax collector to be one of his disciples! “As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector's booth. "Follow me," he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him.” Matthew 9:9

And then he says things like this:
“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.” Luke 6:32

So… I had to do a major perspective shift with seeing that scripture in the way that Jesus actually meant it! He is not saying to treat a brother who sins against you “unfavorably”, but instead, adjust your expectations of them, don’t think of them as a “brother” but as a lost sheep, someone who needs MORE grace, mercy and kindness… like a pagan or a tax collector! Please tell me I am not the only one who thought this way! Apparently this was a perspective that I had adopted and didn’t even realize it! I am very thankful that the Lord revealed this attitude so that I could change it!

So, as it turns out, I was wrong and my friend was right! That is exactly the way she needed to handle her difficult situation, with more grace, love and compassion! I now see these specific words of Jesus very differently than I did before… do you?

Wednesday, August 1, 2018

Come, Follow me...


“Come, follow me, Jesus said..." Matthew 4:19

I love to dance. I always have. When the right music comes on, my body just wants to move and groove to the rhythms. Recently Tom and I watched Dancing with the stars because he heard they were going to have sports figures as the contestants, one of which was Kareem Abdul-Jabbar! The 71 year old, 7’2” basketball player! He didn’t do much dancing but he gave it his best shot and was a great sport about it. And I think they assigned him the shortest partner they had! At one point she was on the shoulders of another dancer and only then was she tall enough to face him for a couples dance move! I enjoyed watching the program and imagined myself (much younger of course) right there with them. I wished I could be a part of the show so I could be taught how to dance with style and grace, refining my current “interpretive” dance moves.

Lately, even before watching Dancing with the Stars, in my time with the Lord I visualize us dancing together. It is either on the beach or in a field of wild flowers in the sunrise or sunset. We don’t talk but just enjoy each other and He leads me in a wonderful dance.

In Dancing with the stars they have judges who critique the dancers and they told one of the contestants that she needed to stop trying to “lead”! They told her to just relax and trust her partner to lead her. This morning, as I was enjoying my dance with the Lord, I thought about this and about how important it was for the “follower” in the dance to just let go, relax and allow the leader to LEAD. Back in the day it was more common for couples to dance the Waltz, Tango, Rumba and Foxtrot which were much more popular then. Now days you have couples on the dance floor but they are doing different dances, dancing their own steps to the music, and sometimes not even facing one another. So, I think we have lost the art of “following”!

Once years ago I had an opportunity to dance with a professional Ball room dancer. All the ladies were in line waiting for their chance to dance with this man… including me! When my turn came I wanted to impress him with how good a dancer I was so I tried to “anticipate” his moves and because I didn't know how to follow, it resulted in resisting and fighting against HIS lead and the dance ended MUCH quicker than I would have liked. I was a bit embarrassed and disappointed and most certainly humbled! I wasn’t relaxed or paying attention to his ques or “following” his lead at all… and so the dance ended quickly and abruptly.

Tom brought up another good visual. The old movie dancers and actors Fred Astaire and Ginger Rodgers. They were the most well-known and best dancers in the 30’s and 40’s. They could dance and make it look like it was the easiest thing in the world to do! But they had two different styles, they danced arm in arm and it was like silk… just as smooth and effortless as can be. But when they danced side by side, it was more of a “competition”, they both wanted to out-do the other!

As I think about Christian life, and dancing with Jesus, I think most of us are just so happy that Jesus is on the dance floor with us that we don’t “engage” Him in an “intimate” style of dance. WE like to be in control of our “moves”, dancing our own steps and trying to show off, hoping He will like what we are doing and compliment us on our funky and creative moves! While I don’t think that is necessarily “wrong”, I just think that we are MISSING an amazing opportunity to get closer to the Lord. To be drawn into His arms and to enjoy the strength and talent of the Lord of the Dance, and marvel at how graceful and easy this dance can be when we let HIM lead!!

As I continued to ponder this, I thought of Jesus’ words to the disciples “Come follow me…”! Isn’t that funny! His words can even be applied to a “dancing” reference! Then I thought about how our walk with the Lord is just like a dance! He say’s “follow me” but, just like in dancing, we don’t quite know how… or we might try to anticipate where His is leading us to show off, or see it as a competition.  Or we might be afraid to let go of control and prefer to just be on the dance floor with Him, doing our own thing. I was so used to dancing by myself in life that I developed a very independent way of doing things. Taking control and making things happen “my” way. But as I continue to walk this journey to know God He is teaching me to be more of a follower than an independent dancer. A GOOD leader knows how to move you with just slight and gentle pressure on your back with his hand. We need to learn the signals of course but once we do, He can lead us gracefully and effortlessly along life’s dance floor. But we have to relax and pay attention to His signals. It has taken me a long time, but I am learning to let go and trust the Lord of the dance and His leading in my life. I am doing less “independent” dances and more intimate dances with Him and learning to love the freedom of just “following”!

So… What does this look like in real life? How can you apply these dancing principles to your life with Him right now? Well, everyone is different and in different places on their journey, but God will meet us where ever we are, all we have to do is ask, and then take His hand and begin the dance. I do know that without TRUST we will not follow him where He desires to leads us. We may “say” we trust Him but when the moment comes and we have to place our lives in His hands we suddenly realize just how much fear, and how little trust we have, or don’t have. This is a really GOOD thing! It is only then, when we can see the fear and lack of trust, that we can actually DO something about it! This is a journey and each day offers you another opportunity to take a chance, take His hand and grow in your trust that His leading is true. He is so very kind and patient with us!

Would YOU like to move in closer and dance with the Lord? He is reaching out for your hand right now!

Friday, January 12, 2018

Forged in Fire...

“Everyone will be salted with fire.” Mark 9:49


Tom and I like to watch a program called “Forged in Fire”. It is a competition between 4 blade smiths, one at a time being eliminated after a series of tests of their skills and blades, ending with one champion. When the program first came on Tom watched it by himself but one day I wandered in while he was watching it and I the next thing I knew, I was hooked as well! I LOVE the heart and attitudes of the smiths as well as watching what amazing blades they produce with metal, fire, hammers and grinding! Truly an art form!

“If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man's work.” 1 Corinthians 3:12-13

Years ago Tom and I were struggling in our marriage, and with life in general, and one day Tom said to me that he felt like he was being forged like a piece of metal that God was heating up and hammering over and over again! This was a great visual and analogy for what we have come to believe God is actually doing with us! We believe that our circumstances in life are perfectly ordained by God as refining fires so that He can remove the dross in our hearts and minds. And once we are purified and ready, then He can begin the forging process to shape and mold us into the tools and/or weapons He needs us to be for HIS Kingdom purposes and His Glory! I have called Tom my “refining fire” many times as it seems like he brings out the worst in me!! LOL! Over time, in my marriage and relationship with Tom, the Lord has revealed my true heart… the heart I didn’t even realize I had until my circumstances caused all the yuck (or dross) to surface. Examples being: my self-righteousness, pride, arrogance, judgmentalism, criticism, people pleasing, approval seeking, control issues, OCDness… And the list goes on! I often mention the book “Lies Women Believe and the Truth that Sets them Free” by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. She says that the lie is, that our circumstances “make” us who we are, but the truth is, that they “reveal” who we are!! I love that!

“John answered them all, "I baptize you with water. But one more powerful than I will come, the thongs of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and with fire.” Luke 3:16

It is only through hard and difficult circumstances that we are able to see the fear, impatience, anxiety, stress, anger, guilt and shame that is in our hearts, and this is so we can take it to God and allow Him to transform our hearts and minds into what He has designed us to be.

We have a tendency to see hard and difficult circumstances as an attack from the enemy or blame others for the things that happen to us. But if we change that perspective and see it as ordained by God, we can look to HIM and ask what it is that we need to learn from these hard things! Graham Cooke has a great story that he shares regarding this that we heard about 10 years ago and Tom and I have referenced it many times saying, “Never resent the “tools” God uses to shape and mold us!”: Throne Room

 “…for our "God is a consuming fire." Hebrews 12:29

“If you will give God your right to yourself, He will make a holy experiment out of you --- and His experiments always succeed. The one true mark of a saint of God is the inner creativity that flows from being totally surrendered to Jesus Christ. In the life of a saint there is this amazing Well, which is a continual Source of original life. The Spirit of God is a Well of water springing up perpetually fresh. A saint realizes that it is God who engineers his circumstances; consequently there are no complaints, only unrestrained surrender to Jesus.  Oswald, My Utmost for His Highest, June 13th

I love how Oswald hits on this topic many times throughout the year, reminding me that it is God who engineers my circumstances and to STOP complaining but just surrender to Jesus, allowing Him to do the work He needs to do in my heart. That is what it is all about, isn’t it? Surrender? That is what the metal does in the smith’s hands, it doesn’t fight back, whine or complain, or try to wiggle out from the hands of the smith, but allows the smith to do his job to make an amazing tool or weapon.

“Do not put out the Spirit's fire…” 1Thessalonians 5:19

I just looked up the process for making a blade and this article breaks it down into 6 steps (How to make a Sword - The six step process). They are clear that this isn’t the complete process but more of a general guideline, which is all I need right now. I wanted to give you an idea of what it takes to forge a sword or tool. This isn’t an easy or quick process, but it takes time, patience, endurance and lots of skill to forge metal! (The Italics and underlining is mine):

The First step is Forging

A bar of the desired metal or combination of metals is heated in a forge and then it is hammered into shape.(The shape of a sword) This hammering process can take a long time and it is called drawing out the sword. The sword is worked on in sections (usually around 6 inches in length) and repeatedly hammered and heated until it comes into the desired shape .This process is repeated many times and the sword is often heated then allowed to cool without hammering. This is required by the metal to keep the desired properties of strength and flexibility. Once this step is completed the sword is in the proper shape but the properties of the metal make it very brittle and something has to be done to give flexibility to it.

Step Two: Annealing

Annealing softens the sword and makes it easy to grind into shape. The sword is now heated and then allowed to cool very slowly. Often it is wrapped in an insulating material to slow down this cooling. It can take as long as 24 hours and this annealing process makes the sword soft and easy to grind.

Step Three: Grinding

Now the blacksmith uses a grinder to work out the edge and point of the sword. This would also be when any engraving is added. This is not a completed sword yet. It is still much too soft so it must be hardened.

Step Four: Hardening

Now the sword is heated to a very high temperature and then placed into a quenching tank. (This is what we always see in the movies). This quenching allows it to cool quickly and evenly which will harden the metal. After this hardening the sword is brittle and something must be done to make it strong yet flexible.

Step Five: Tempering

Again the blade is heated and quenched. But now the heating is at a much lower
temperature than was used at the hardening. This heating/quenching cycle may be repeated several times. This tempering allows the blade to be strong but not brittle. This is one stage where the skill and experience of the swordsmith is invaluable. It takes a trained hand and eye to understand the properties of the metal. It will have a certain amount of flexibility yet still retain its sharp edge. Now the sword is ready for completion.

Step Six: Completion

The sword blade itself is now complete. Now the additional parts will be added such as the pommel, the guard and the hilt.

“In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith--of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire--may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” 1 Peter 1:6-7

This forging process is quite lengthy and it takes time to do it right! We live in a society of instant gratification and we have little patience for things that take too long… (WHAT! 6 minutes to microwave my dinner!? That’s crazy! LOL!). But God is not in a hurry and He will do whatever He needs to do, and take as long as He needs to take, to make a great work of art!

While our trials and difficulties may seem like they are too difficult and even “unfair”, thinking about them in this new way may help you get through these tough times. What dross is this “fire” bringing up in me? Am I making the process more difficult by resisting, fighting, feeling sorry for myself or complaining? I have to admit, I am guilty on all counts!! DOH!

Father, Help me to surrender at all times to your refining and forging process! Help me to relax and trust that You have this and that You are a very skilled Smith who knows what You are doing… even if it looks like you don’t! Thank you for being patient with my wiggling, whining and complaining and for this reminder that when you are done, I will be exactly what you need me to be, a wonderful work of art, for Your purposes and for Your Glory! Help me to be a strong yet flexible weapon that You can be proud of!

“I have come to bring fire on the earth, and how I wish it were already kindled!” Luke 12:49


“They saw what seemed to be tongues of fire that separated and came to rest on each of them.” Acts 2:3

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

The Plumb Line…

“Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6


As I have mentioned before, I have been listening to the gospels and Revelation over and over again because Jesus speaks to us in these books. I have LOVED doing this because it helps me get to know Jesus, and imprint on Him and learn what is important to HIM. After doing this for almost three years now I am getting a much better feel for His truths and replacing the lies I have believed with the truth according to HIM. This has been a remarkable journey!! To say that it has been transforming would be an understatement. I guess you can say that I am becoming more and more familiar with the “Plumb line” of our faith! Our “True North”, the ROCK and foundation for our lives.

I used the term “Plumb line” because that is what came to mind when I wanted to write this blog. Here is the definition of plumb line:  1:a line (as of cord) that has at one end a weight (such as a plumb bob) and is used especially to determine verticality 2:a line directed to the center of gravity of the earth :a vertical line

And along those same lines here is a “chalk line” definition: A chalk line or chalk box is a tool for marking long, straight lines on relatively flat surfaces, much farther than is practical by hand or with a straightedge. They may be used to lay out straight lines between two points, or vertical lines by using the weight of the line reel as a plumb line. It is an important tool in carpentry…  (I thought “important tool in carpentry” was a cool reference since Jesus was a carpenter too!)

As I understand it, these tools are used to determine the straightest, truest vertical and horizontal lines possible. To make sure that everything that is done or built afterwards is straight and true for a good solid structure and foundation.

So, with that said, every once in a while I will go from listening to the gospels to listening to the whole New Testament, because I know there is a lot of good stuff in the other books as well. But, a very interesting thing has happened the last couple of times I have done this! I am finding that there are times that what is said in the other books do not always line up with what Jesus says! Are you surprised!? I know I was! And I will definitely give you some examples in a bit so you can see what I mean for yourself.

If Jesus is the “Plumb line” on which we build the foundation of our faith, then I think it is super important that we KNOW what He said, don’t you? Yes, yes… I too thought I knew what Jesus said, but what I am finding out is that I really DIDN’T know Jesus’ words the way I thought I did, but only what I was taught and told by others, and then I too passed that misinformation on. Yes, we were well intentioned but we learned it wrong from someone else and now we are playing the “telephone” game, passing on information from others, adding our own thoughts and misunderstandings as they go through our own doctrinal filters without checking with our Plumb Line. And then we try to build our faith on these rickety foundations that will only fall apart when tested. I think we can all say we have experienced something like that at some point in time, and then we wondered what happened, right?! We might have even blamed God for hurtful and painful events and may even still be angry at Him for something we thought we understood about Him or His promises that didn’t happen the way we thought it would/should!

Yes, I DO believe that God put the Bible together and that it is ALL HIS Word, and everything that is in the Bible is supposed to be there! But, maybe there are some things in there that we have to discern as to what we will apply to our lives as truth and what is just something said by the person who wrote it? Like in all things of “faith” we have a choice as to what we will believe. Let’s take the apostle Paul for example. As I read his writings there are times I think to myself, “WOW! That was brilliant and definitely Spirit inspired!” And other times he says things and I think to myself “Ok, that was just ‘Paul’ and not so much Spirit led”.

Don’t get me wrong here, I LOVE Paul and think he wrote some amazing and insightful stuff, and I don’t mean to pick on him, but he is a very good example of the point I want to make. We tend to think of the Biblical characters, especially the apostles, as “special” and almost super human but they were just normal people, like you and me, who God used to do His work. Paul, and the others, were just regular guys, and therefore capable of making mistakes, well-meaning but just human. But Jesus was God AND man and He didn’t make mistakes. So, whose words and instructions should we KNOW, pay the most attention to and follow? Which books of the Bible should we know more than any others?

Paul was raised as a Pharisee and was most definitely what we would call a “type A personality”! He did everything with his whole being! He even said that of himself in these scriptures: “My brothers, I am a Pharisee, the son of a Pharisee.” Acts 23:6.  “…circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for legalistic righteousness, faultless...” Philippians 3:5. And I think that is exactly why Jesus chose him! Because whatever he did, he did it with his whole heart! He was ALL IN all the time! But, as passionate as he was, he was still human, and not perfect.

So, as I have listened to some of Paul’s letters I can’t help but think that maybe he slipped in and out of his “Pharisaical roots”. There are times when he preached grace, love and forgiveness but then every once in a while he slips into the law, legalism and religion. Also in his humanness he confesses several times of being “afraid” and in that fear he tries to “control” the thinking and actions of the churches, enforcing rules and regulations to keep the people in line instead of trusting God with them. And in his humanness he gets hurt, frustrated and angry, just like us! But, I don’t see Jesus doing that at all! Jesus trusts God and the Holy Spirit in all ways and at all times. And of course I don’t have to tell you that there was NO fear in Him. He was not intimidated by men or demons and only did what the Father told Him to do in absolute love, kindness, mercy, grace and compassion. And He is our example of how we need to behave and treat others. So we really need to KNOW what He said and use HIS words as our foundation and True North, not Paul, Peter, James or John, not our Pastors, and not anyone else in our lives. We have to take EVERYTHING back to our ROCK and Plumb Line to make sure we have it right. I am not saying to disregard what others say but to line it up with what Jesus said to make sure it matches up with His words of Truth.

Ok, as promised earlier, here are a couple of scriptural comparisons between Paul and Jesus:

Paul:
“Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him.” Titus 3:10

“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God-- having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.” 2 Timothy 3:1-5

Jesus:

“You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. … If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? ....” Matthew 5:38-48

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:34-35

What I hear Paul saying is to have nothing to do with people that are sinners and broken, and not exhibiting what he would consider “Christian” behavior. Tom says he thinks Paul has a hard time with allowing people to be “in process” and in transition. Since Paul’s experience was sudden and miraculous he may not understand that it takes most us of YEARS to overcome addictions, past hurts and brokenness. What Jesus is saying is that we need to LOVE everyone, at all times and at all stages of our journey, even our enemies and those who are not easy to be around, you know, those difficult people that we ALL struggle with.

Paul:
 “I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people--not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked man from among you." 1 Corinthians 5:9-13

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? …” 2 Corinthians 6:14-18

Jesus:
“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Luke 6:27-31

“While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners." Matthew 9:10-13

“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” Luke 6:36-37

“For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Matthew 7:2

Again, Paul is placing himself in the seat of “judgment” on believers AND unbelievers who don’t meet his criteria, saying not to have anything to do with them but that is exactly who Jesus hung out with! Jesus was criticized for spending time with tax collectors and sinners but He said to the religious leaders, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor but the sick”. And then He says “In the same way you judge, you will be judged…”… Oh boy.

Paul:
“But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent's cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 11:3

“For I am afraid that when I come I may not find you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to be. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder. I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have indulged.” 2 Corinthians 12:20-21

“For this reason, when I could stand it no longer, I sent to find out about your faith. I was afraid that in some way the tempter might have tempted you and our efforts might have been useless.” 1 Thessalonians 3:5

Jesus:
“Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” Matthew 10:29-31

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27 (There are MANY scriptures of Jesus saying “do not be afraid”, and you can do a search for them, but I just picked out these two)

In our “fear” we do things and make decisions that are not beneficial or Godly. I tell the ladies I meet with not to make decisions based on fear, anger, guilt, shame or condemnation because they rarely turn out well. But instead to wait for “peace” and for God’s leading. I think Paul made some emotional, “knee jerk” reactions and decisions with the churches as he was trying to guide them. I know I have done that very same thing and have had to apologize many times!! Ministering to people can be really hard and frustrating but Jesus was always steady and confident, full of love and always went right to the heart of the matter, which was their need for Him, NOT condemning them for their sin.

Paul:

 “… A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. But women will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.” 1 Timothy 2:9-15

“Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self- controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. …” 1 Timothy 3:1-10

“Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel.” 1 Corinthians 4:15

Jesus:

“Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave--just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." Matthew 20:25-26

“But you are not to be called 'Rabbi,' for you have only one Master and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth 'father,' for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Nor are you to be called 'teacher,' for you have one Teacher, the Christ.” Matthew 23:8–10

“When you are brought before synagogues, rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say." Luke 12:11-12

“It is written in the Prophets: 'They will all be taught by God.' Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me.” John 6:45

In the 1 Timothy 2 scripture, about women, this was most definitely “Paul” laying down rules and laws that were not taught by Jesus… But actually, I DO agree that neither a woman NOR a man should have ANY authority over us… ONLY God. When we elevate a man, or woman, it only places them in a position to FALL. How many Pastors and ministers over the years have you heard of that have fallen!? We were never meant to be in authority over each other but to be brothers and sisters in the Lord. Paul says that setting our hearts on being an overseer is a noble task but Jesus specifically says NOT to do that. We have only one teacher and that is Jesus and one Father and that is God.

In the 1 Timothy 3 scripture (which I cut short but you can look it up and read it all) he is laying down a very LONG list of the standards and qualifications of what an overseer should be but Tom commented that those sounded more like the qualifications for a Pharisee! Looking good on the outside but there’s no way to know his heart. In the earlier days, right after Jesus ascended, the only qualifications for a deacon was that they be “full of the Spirit and wisdom” (Acts 6:3) Jesus always looks at the heart. HE chose uneducated fishermen, a tax-collector, a rejected woman at the well who had been married 5 times, a demon possessed man, a leper, a blind man, etc. (The First Evangelists... How low can you go). The only qualifications were that they loved him and wanted to follow Him. It was their testimony of what God did for them that had power not their qualifications according to man. (“They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony…” Revelation 12:11)

Can you see what I am saying now? In Paul’s scriptures he is saying not to associate with sinners, having nothing to do with certain people, assigning overseers, making decisions based on “fear” and trying to control people with rules, regulations and standards that Jesus didn’t teach. With Jesus, He was ALL about hanging out with the sinners, loving, serving and trusting God with teaching and directing His followers. Whose instructions are we to follow??

Oh, how quickly we can fall back on our “human understanding” and leave the teachings of Jesus! If Paul did it, how much more will we if we aren’t intentional and determined to get to know our Plumb Line! I have SO been guilty of passing on incorrect information because I didn’t know Jesus like I should have and relied on others to teach me, so now I am determined to know ONLY Him, the truth and nothing but the truth, and I am taking responsibility for my own relationship, trusting God and the Holy Spirit to reveal the things I need to know as I listen to HIS words.

I certainly don’t want to sound too simplistic here. What Jesus says to do is HARD and we certainly CAN’T do it on our own! Isn’t it so much easier to not have anything to do with sinners and difficult Christians, and make up rules and regulations to protect ourselves and have more control over things? Oh yeah, it is! And we certainly can’t give what we don’t have! And if we don’t have a relationship with Jesus that pours out of us love, grace and forgiveness than we probably shouldn’t have anything to do with those people until we DO have it!

Tom made a great point regarding the scripture when Jesus reached out and touched the leper, he said that Jesus wasn’t intimidated by his sin and it wasn’t contagious to Him, but that His love and healing was more contagious to those around Him! What a great visual! WE would be terrified to touch a leper because we wouldn’t want to “catch” it, but Jesus knew His healing was more contagious than the leprosy! When we are FULL of GOD and His grace and wisdom we will be contagious too! So, we can be around anyone when we are aligned with our Plumb Line and not get impatient, frustrated or hurt and we will not be swayed or pulled into undesired sin and debauchery but instead, we can pull them into the Kingdom! As Oswald says, when we have the RIGHT relationship with Him and when we are completely and totally surrendered and relying only on Jesus, our ministry to Him happens as naturally as breathing!

Here is another scripture from Jesus that confirms what I am saying:
“Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? (Ouch!) I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete." Luke 6:46-49

Thanks for hanging in there with me! I hope it was worth it to you! But please, don’t take MY word for it, find out for yourself! Read the gospels and Revelation over and over again, for years! Hear what Jesus says and you will be amazed at the transformation you will experience!! I am looking forward to what He will show me next!  :)

Again, MOST of what Paul says is brilliant and very much Holy Spirit led so I will leave you with one of my favorites:

“However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me--the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace.” Acts 20:24


Father, I am so thankful for your grace and forgiveness! I am also thankful for your Truth that sets us free from sin and death. I am thankful that Your Truth brings Peace and Freedom! I pray for all of us Lord that we will endeavor to know only You and Your Truth. Help us to remove the lies we have believed and give us courage, strength and perseverance to pursue You, and only You, at all times, at all costs so we will know without a doubt the Plumb Line of our faith, our True North and the Rock of our salvation! In your name I pray, amen!